What Now?

If you’ve followed my blog for a while you will know that I’m a lover of music.  One thing I’m not really a lover of is TV.  When it comes to music however, I’m a sucker for reality television.  I love watching artists reach for their dreams and grow under the tutelage of some of the great producers and artists that are a part of shows such as American Idol, The X Factor and The Voice.

The Voice is my favorite of the bunch, because I love the way the coaches work together and support each other.  The show also seems to attract a really high level of talent, and the premise that you get selected “blind” with only the performer’s voice to go on is a great way of filtering out all of the assumptions we make about someone merely from the way they look and move.

What Now?
What Now?

This year’s winner was Tessanne Chin of Jamaica.  Aside from having the best voice in the competition, she is a beautiful person in every way and really bonded with her coach Adam Levine of Maroon 5. During the final show when they were preparing for her final songs, they spoke of their journey together and how it was coming to an end.  Tessanne said she had been thinking about what happens when the show is over and spoke the question “What now?”.

I loved Adam’s answer … “That’s a question you have to make sure you don’t ask yourself.  You just answer it.  You focus on the task at hand.” Which in this case is winning a $100,000 prize and a recording contract.

When I heard this I was brought back to my post In Between from a couple of weeks ago.  After I published that post there was a comment from Andrew B. that said “For me in between means I’m moving and progressing. It says my landscape and reference points are changing and that suggests a certain excitement for me … I think for me in between holds angst when I’m “in between” too long. I’m no longer travelling forward nor perfecting my current state.”

These two things compelled me to add to my thoughts of a couple weeks ago. It has brought me to the realization that “in between” isn’t about being in between things.  It is about moving from one thing to the next. It is about the courage and confidence to take actions that will allow us to release the current state and move actively towards the new.  It isn’t about asking questions … it’s about answering them.  It isn’t about planning, it’s about doing. It isn’t about asking “Why?”, it’s about asserting “Why not!!”.

If we are taking action, in between becomes exciting as Andrew points out.  We are actively involved in defining our future state.  We are testing things out, trying to figure out how everything fits together.  We are building bridges from our current state to where we know we want to be.

The first step ...
The first step …

What “$100,000 prize and recording contract” is in your future? For me I see two prizes.  I see my new role as I complete the transition to my successor, and I see a rewarding and meaningful “first retirement” for myself after that next role.  What I need to focus on is the next thing that I will do to make those future desired states a reality for myself.  I know what those things are because I’ve planned for them.  But guess what?  Plans don’t happen unless we do something!

I think there is a pretty obvious connection here to our roles as leaders.  Our team members all have plans for themselves, both for their current work and for where they aspire to be in the future. Do we help our team members understand what it is they need to do to accomplish their goals?  Do we make them accountable for taking action?  Do they know it is up to them to make their plans reality?

Thank you Adam and Andrew for adding clarity.  And thank you Tessanne Chin for your beautiful artistry.  Here is a sample of her work signing one of the biggest songs ever … Whitney Houston’s “I Have Nothing”.

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Ian Munro @ leadingessentially.com

Ian Munro is a leadership and vitality coach with a primary passion for working with senior professionals who wish to improve their connection to and vitality in their career, or who wish to make a transition to a meaningful and rewarding retirement. His methods are focused on helping clients understand why they present as they do in day-to-day life, discover their authentic self and give themselves permission to build a meaningful and rewarding future, both professional and personal. Ian’s love for this work has developed naturally as he built his career as an executive and leader in the IT services industry, serving in many roles and facets of this industry over 25 years. As he reached the pinnacle of his career he began to search more deeply for meaning and alternate rewards from his own career and to begin to plan for his own “first retirement”.

11 thoughts on “What Now?

  1. Danaan Perry in his book Warriors of the Heart likens it to being on a trapeze. We swing back and forth and in that moment if we release to grab the next one coming towards us we hang suspended, supported by nothing but gravity and faith. It is in that moment magic happens.

    I believe our job is to keep asking “WHAT NEXT” and to let the universe take care of the how. We need to keep making the “what” possible through staying focused on taking, as you say, the next step.

    Good one Ian.

    1. I love the metaphor of the trapeze. If we were to extend that we might say that we don’t need to take the leap now, because we know the trapeze will swing towards us again. Yet on the next pass we don’t know if it will come close enough to grab. Thanks for your creativity and lateral thinking Louise!

  2. Thanks Ian

    Perfect timing for this post as we all enter into a new year and start setting our goals. I’m a huge believer in setting short term and long term goals I look forward to a new year to access what I’ve done and where I’m going! Coaching our team members this concept I believe is truly worth the effort. Life is a journey and goal setting is the road map. 🙂

    Happy New Year

    1. I appreciate the contribution to this discussion! We may come at this from different angles tho! For starters the only New Years resolution I ever make is to resolve not to make any resolutions! I can’t imagine a world without plans, but it is important to remember that no plan executes itself so we have to be action oriented!

      1. Ahh I agree with you Ian, my thoughts going into a New Year are not of resolutions but more goals. I set goals all year long complete with action plans so I think we are closer aligned than you think 🙂

  3. I feel the same way everytime I write a new book. I see the publishing process as a trapeze ride and how I land at the end is dependent on what I do in the meantime.

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